Meri Study Journey
jahan padayi ka mahol ladkiyon ke liye hamesha se mushkil raha hai. Main ek joint family me rehti hoon, jahan 25 log ek sath rahte hain. Itne bade parivaar me padhna, sapne dekhna aur un sapno ko pura karna itna asaan nahi tha.
Jab maine apni 10th class complete ki, tab parivaar ke logon ne kehna shuru kar diya tha ki "ab bus, itna kaafi hai, ladki hai, kya karegi zyada padh ke." Lekin mere papa mere saath khade rahe. Unhone mujh par bharosa kiya aur kaha ki "padhai jaari rakh." Papa ke is ek faisle ne meri zindagi badal di.
Mujhe yaad hai, jab main 10th me thi to beech me ek baar gir gayi thi aur mujhe ek mahine tak padhai se door rehna pada. Par mere papa ka kehna tha ki "tu exam degi." Main nahi dena chahti thi, dar gayi thi, roti thi, par papa ka sapna tha mujhe padhai me aage badhte dekhna. Unhi ke liye maine exam diya aur pass ho gayi.
Jab maine 12th pass ki to log kehne lage, "ab to bahut badi baat hai,
ladki ne 12th tak padhai kar li." Gaon ke logon ki soch thi ki ladkiyon ko sirf ghar ka kaam hi karna chahiye, lekin mere papa ki soch alag thi. Unhone hamesha kaha, "padhegi to aage badegi."
Aur aaj main apne ghar ki pehli ladki hoon jo college ja rahi hai. Na meri ghar ki kisi beti ne, na kisi bahu ne itna padha hai. Yeh sirf mere papa ke support ki wajah se ho paya hai.
Mujhe yaad hai jab main exam ke din tension me hoti thi, to mere aas paas ke log kehte the, "kya karegi itna pad ke? Aakhir me to shaadi kar ke ghar ka kaam hi karegi." Main kabhi kabhi roti thi, kabhi haar bhi maan leti thi mann hi mann me. Lekin jab bhi papa ka chehra yaad aata tha, unka bharosa yaad aata tha, to main khud ko mazboot karti thi.
Papa ke support ne mujhe yeh sikha diya ki zindagi me padhna sirf ek naukri ke liye nahi hota, balki apne sapne poore karne ke liye hota hai. Aaj main apne career me aage badhne ki koshish kar rahi hoon,
freelancing ka safar shuru kiya hai aur apni pehchan banane me lagi hoon. Mera ek sapna hai ki ek din ghar baith kar itna kamaoon ki papa ko mujh par garv ho.
Yeh journey asaan nahi thi, lekin aaj jo bhi hoon, jo bhi ban rahi hoon, wo sirf mere papa ke bharose aur himmat ke wajah se hai.
Mujhe pata hai ki kai ladkiyan aaj bhi mere jaise sapne dekh rahi hongi, lekin unhe darr hai logon ke taano ka, family pressure ka. Main un sab ladkiyon ko yahi kehna chahti hoon – agar ek insaan bhi tumhare saath ho, jaise mere papa mere saath the, to tum duniya ki har mushkil paar kar sakti ho.
Aakhir me bas itna kehna chahungi – padhna zaruri hai,
